I work with clients who come to me with a wide range of sexual and relationship problems including loss of, or miss-matched desire for sex, communication problems, arguments, erectile dysfunction, pain during sex, rapid ejaculation or difficulty with orgasm for both men and women.

Couples and individuals may find that they are struggling with intimacy for a range of reasons.  They may find that they are struggling to maintain an active sex life after many years in an otherwise happy relationship, maybe illness, the arrival of children, or changes due to ageing are hindering the re-establishment of intimacy.  Sometimes life is just getting in the way and you wish to rebuild an active intimate life.

I bring training,  professional and personal experience, and provide an emotionally safe space for clients to express themselves without criticism or judgement.  I usually offer couple a chance for some individual sessions at the beginning of therapy to provide freedom to express their feelings fully and then use talking therapy to help uncover issues, underlying causes and barriers to change. I then use a more directive approach with practical solutions and 'homework tasks' to help my clients achieve realistic goals.

I encourage couples and individuals to be truly honest with themselves, and each other, to think about their own needs as well as their partners.  I work with clients to improve their communication style, increase understanding of themselves and their partner whilst always bearing in mind the interplay between the two areas of sexual function and great relationships.